PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE

[bams481]

CAN WE PLEASE STOP GETTING GOOD DISCUSSIONS CLOSED? I don't even know why we are here if we cannot discuss things...thats what this site is about. Please stop arguing in these discussions and just discuss, please. I am so frustrated that I just want to throw my arms up and give up and leave. I mean come on

[Belles]

Here's a good example of how it STARTS. When one posts something or points fingers.. why bother to respond. WHO CARES??

[Belles]

See what I mean?

[bams481]

actually Liddy, it started with what I said to you, and you said what you said back at me. I nicely said to look at yourself, because you do the exact same thing...and you decided to be rude back to me instead of being an adult about it and say "You know Bambi, I do sort fight about petty stuff don't I....I do need to sit back and learn how to control my emotions"....thats called an adult discussion. Instead, you were rude to me, and my friends came to back me up...thats what exactly just happened, and thats exactly what happens on every other discussion, not just you, but others as well. This right here needs to stop, and I mean it. I will work hand and hand with the MODS if I have to to get this site back in order...I have 14 days to myself and I can spend all day and night on the computer if I have to. This is going to stop one way or another.

[Camille]

Oh, yes, I'll take a look at myself, at my horseface? Right?

Get a life, Liddy. Do you really think anyone takes you seriously anymore? You're just a vile, nasty person who thrives on hate and drama. Otherwise, you wouldn't be here so much. You start arguments with people and when things don't go your way, you run away like a little girl and report everyone to the MODS. I've never reported you...primarily because I feel sorry for you. If this is how you get your attention, fine. I guess not having a job does that to you. Got to have some social life.

[pistons58]

I have to agree with Bams & Liddy - I almost left this site because of all the drama - but then I remember why I came here in the first place. We are all entitled to our own opinions and we should agree to disagree.......that's what makes topics exciting.
But when it comes down to name calling and peer bashing - it make me feel like I'm back in grade school.
If something gets heated - walk away - come back in a few days - I know it's worked for me.

BAMS - welcome back!!!!! We missed you
Camille - I too can get nasty when frustration takes over - I am normally extremely mild-mannered (lol)

Hope eveyone has a great weekend.....I got some home improvement tuff going on so I won't be online as much - just wanted you to know so y'all didn't think I was having a snit fit & staying away on purpose LOL LOL
Kathy

[Camille]

Same. I'm normally really relaxed. I have a hot temper-- my father AND my mother weren't the best at keeping their cool, and while I'm better at it than they are, I'm just as firey, sadly.

HOW MANY TIMES DO I HAVE TO REPORT ANIMAL CRUELTY BEFORE SOMEONE IN THIS DANG TOWN DOES SOMETHING?!

I'm frustrated right now. Filed a report with the city, filed a report with the Houston SPCA, what else am I supposed to do?!

[Lani]

If it's a violation of state law, call the state troopers. That's what we have had to resort to in our county. The county Sheriff won't or can't do anything, no animal control services, so if it's State Law, State Patrol it is.

[Camille]

It's city ordinance. I contacted the city and I got in touch with the investigator via voicemail. Let's hope I see some results. I'll be really happy when they take those chickens out of there.

[bams481]

Pistons, never ever just agree to disagree, not unless you have been debating back and forth for days and ending up just saying the same thing over and over....but if there is a healthy debate going on between you and another person, or several people, never feel like your opinion doesn't matter, because it does, very much. That is what makes life so intresting. Theres never anything wrong with disagreeing, debating and even arguing. Its when it resorts to name calling and immaure and/or petty crap is when it is not necessary. Sometimes, I feel like shouting out some 'Joe Momma' jokes or something....thats what it sounds like. Its completly insane that this site even has to talk about this, but for this long....come on guys, how old are we? lets act our age and not our shoe size, ok?

Pistons, where've I been? Did I have fun? HA. I've been here, just not as much cause I now live with my parents and my step mom is a PC hog. They are just in MI at my brother's for 14 days...yay. Not only do I have the house and PC to myself, but I can smoke in the house for 12 of those 14 days, yay lol. I've been hearing noises tho...like a door shuting. Im just being parinoid, its a huge house and I've never been here alone at night before lol.

[bams481]

oh and I was promised that they will buy me the wireless ethernet card I need to network our PCs together when they get back so I should not have long before I can be on all the time for good...yay.

[pistons58]

Oh I understand Bams.......I'm not one to just drop something - if I am passionate about it that is. If it starts becoming petty - then yah - I shut up (I will think all sorta of nasty thoughts lol - but not gonna post it)
What part of Michigan are they in? I'm just curious....I'm actually in Macomb County - nice but lord do I miss Chicago - why oh why did I move??? LOL
I hear ya on the smoking in the house - it's the worse for me when I am at my PC - or phone - or after meals. I try to smoke outside when I can - but usually there is some excuse not to LOL
Glad to see ya back
Kathy

[HALEY]

yes i agree bams! but please don't leave! we keep losing memebers because of conversations......it's sad!