So right now I'm in the middle of a 2 day long debate with my mother. I will begin this story from the beginning:
I volunteer at an animal shelter in my town. I adore all of the dogs that I work with, from the Presa Canario to the pit bull pups. I brought my mother to the shelter and handed her probably 15 or so dogs. Each one she found something wrong with. It's ugly. It's a girl. It's not friendly enough. It's a pit bull (????). It smells. He doesn't like me. He's too hyper. He's too funny looking. He's too big. (One of the cats we have at the shelter smacked her really good on the foot after one of these comments, which I found to be hilarious...but I digress)
After becoming very frustrated and yelling some rant about how all dogs are beautiful and she's superficial, I drag her to the barn to meet the pit bull puppies. She picks up a gorgeous little fawn and white colored girl with sleepy eyes and oohs and ahhs about how gorgeous it is until she tips it over and reveals it's a female. After that, it's not what she wants anymore. Besides, it's a pit bull and might grow up to feast on her flesh (or her land lord's). After that little comment, I was done. I threw my hands up in the air and I was completely and totally finished until she squealed about the dog that had been following us around the property for 2 hours...the woman who owns the shelter's personal English bulldog.
Now my mother has me on a search to find her the most perfect and beautiful PUREBRED English bulldog MALE puppy with PRETTY BROWN MARKINGS "just like that one."
Now, my thing is, I'm having a hard time actually going about doing this because every weekend I go to adoptions and stare at a dog that has been in the program for 2 years, and was at a shelter for 3 years before that. I play with dogs that have been returned by their owners (purebreds) that were too much of a strain on their personal lives to keep. Too hyper, too aggressive, too much of a responsibility. And my mother wants to adopt from one of these people that, in my mind, contribute to this problem. Sure, it's fun running and wrestling and grooming my sweet babies every weekend. But I'd much rather see them in loving forever homes getting belly rubs and not having a care in the world.
What do you guys think? Am I being closed-minded? Should I just find my mom an English Bulldog (which, by the way, are EXPENSIVE) or should I try to convince her to adopt a dog after searching PetFinder? We looked at the bulldogs in our area and they were all either "too old," had "too many health issues," (lol) etc. I'm looking for a solution, so give me your input.
P.S. If you say my mother shouldn't own a dog if she's says things like that, I concur. Sorry if someone misinterprets this as me being hateful to my mother- we don't exactly have a relationship, I just offered to help her because I wanted her to get a breed that was right for her (she lives in an apartment and she wanted a boxer...not exactly smart). I suggested schnauzers, greyhounds (yes Lisbeth...my favorite, haha), boston terriers, pugs, etc. Small short haired dogs. In any case, yeah. Not being hateful, just really frustrated. No one calls my sweeties ugly...I love my furbabies.
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