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Pet Memorial Group

For anyone who has lost a beloved pet. In memory of Blackie, the best furry friend in the world. If you are hurting, you aren't alone.

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Latest Activity: Dec 24

Welcome to the Pet Memorial Group

For everyone who is grieving the loss of a beloved furry family member, please know that we are here for you. It helps to express yourself in whichever way works best for you, in order to move out of the intensity of the pain. It takes a lot of time, believe me, I know firsthand. It's been only two months since I lost the furry love of my life, Blackie. I think of him every day.

Please have comfort in knowing that your pet is with you in your heart and memories forever. Somehow this thought gives me peace deep down, and I hope it does for you too. If you would like to light a virtual candle in your pet's name, follow this link. It's very comforting. Just cut and paste into your browser address bar if the link isn't clickable:
http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/candles.cfm?l=eng


Please post memorials for your pets at the bottom of the page, we want to see them! This is your group and we want to hear from you :) Read below for important grief hotline information. Carolyn


Pet Loss Hotlines (Grief Counseling)
Drs. Foster & Smith Educational Staff


For many people, losing a pet may be one of the saddest experiences they will ever have. We know and understand how the death of a beloved friend and companion can be heartbreaking. Talking to someone who understands your grief is a way to help the healing process begin. If you do not know of anyone to talk to, you may wish to call one of the pet loss hotlines listed below. Caring people there can listen and help. They're only a phone call away.
Phone Numbers
530-752-3602 or
800-565-1526 Staffed by University of California-Davis veterinary students.
Website: www.vetmed.ucdavis.edu/petloss/index.htm
630-325-1600 Staffed by Chicago VMA veterinarians and staffs.
970-491-4143 Staffed by Colorado State University - Argus Institute counselors.
Website: www.argusinstitute.colostate.edu/grief.htm
607-253-3932 Staffed by Cornell University veterinary students.
Website: web.vet.cornell.edu/public/petloss/
352-392-4700;
then dial 1 and 4080 Staffed by Florida veterinary students.
Website: neuro.vetmed.ufl.edu/alt_med/petgrief/petloss.htm
217-244-2273 (CARE) or
877-394-2273 (CARE) Staffed by University of Illinois College of Veterinary Medicine students.
Website: www.cvm.uiuc.edu/CARE/

517-432-2696 Staffed by Michigan State University veterinary students.
Website: cvm.msu.edu/petloss/index.htm
614-292-1823 Staffed by Ohio State University College of Veterinary Medicine students.
E-Mail: petloss@osu.edu
Purdue University's Center for the Human-Animal Bond
Website: http://www.vet.purdue.edu/chab/bond.htm

508-839-7966 Staffed by Tufts University veterinary students.
Website: www.tufts.edu/vet/petloss/
540-231-8038 Staffed by Virginia-Maryland Regional College of Veterinary Medicine.
Website: www.vetmed.vt.edu/Organization/Clinical/petloss/petloss.html
509-335-5704 Staffed by Washington State University College of Veterinary Medicine students.
Website: www.vetmed.wsu.edu/plhl/index.htm

Here's some positive music to comfort and soothe during the loss of a dear pet. I tried to give a variety of genres for everyone to enjoy (country, popular, traditional, etc). Listen if you like, and only if it helps you.

Carolyn

Just a Dog "From time to time, people tell me, lighten up 'it's just a dog', or ‘that's a lot of money to spend on just a dog’. They don't understand. Some of my proudest moments were with 'just a dog'. For many hours, my only company was 'just a dog'. Some of my saddest moments were with 'just a dog', who gave me comfort. 'Just a dog' brings into my life the very essence of friendship, trust, and joy. 'Just a dog' brings out the compassion and patience that make me a better person. I rise early, take long walks and look longingly to the future. 'Just a dog' brings out what's good in me. I hope someday you will understand that it's not 'just a dog', but the very thing that keeps me from being 'just a human’.” ~Unknown
An Important Note to All: We strive to make this site free of pressure to buy anything, as the subject is memorializing our beloved pets. Commercial advertisement is forbidden, and posters who violate this rule will be removed from the group and banned from posting here. No selling, no exceptions. If you want to network, please do so on your homepage but not here, as this is for grieving pet owners only. Keep sending your photos of your pets, we love to see them. This is where you can come and feel safe to express yourself about your pet, we are here for you. Group administration


Report all animal abuse to all your friends and animal lovers on here that you can. Groups are good for getting the word out. Also, use social networking sites like Twitter, Facbook, etc.

Here are very useful links to help:
http://www.aspca.org/fight-animal-cruelty/report-animal-cruelty.html

http://www.pet-abuse.com/pages/animal_cruelty/reporting_abuse.php

http://www.peta.org/

http://www.sniksnak.com/ac/report.html

Discussion Forum

Kim Bair

Too many losses in such a short period of time..... how do I cope? 11 Replies

Started by Kim Bair. Last reply by shayterry Dec 19.

DiAnn Miller

Happy Holidays???? 3 Replies

Started by DiAnn Miller. Last reply by shayterry Dec 19.

DaynalovesTigger

Still Grieving 9 Replies

Started by DaynalovesTigger. Last reply by shayterry Dec 16.

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Kelly Butler Comment by Kelly Butler on June 22, 2009 at 12:33pm
Thank you hun. I am just so glad that I spent from midday yesterday until 11pm last night cuddling him before he went, I just hope he knew that we loved him. xxxxxx
Jessica Renee' Comment by Jessica Renee' on June 22, 2009 at 12:24pm
I am so sorry you lost your kitten my aunt just lost two of her kittens she was fostering and it is all really sad.
Kelly Butler Comment by Kelly Butler on June 22, 2009 at 12:01pm
Good afternoon everyone,

I would just like to say that my little kitten that I was fostering lost his battle and died around 2pm GMT today. I am just so happy that I spent the whole day cuddling you. RIP Alfie.xxxx
Kelly Butler Comment by Kelly Butler on June 22, 2009 at 5:53am
Good morning all,

I am so sorry for Barbara and Charlotte, my heart goes out to you both at this sad time.xxxxx

I hope everyone has a great dayxxxxx
Momcat Sooma Comment by Momcat Sooma on June 21, 2009 at 8:02pm
Dear Barbara,

I'm so sorry to hear about your two losses so close together. You barely had time to adjust after the first one before the next one. My heart goes out to you.

Both of your beautiful angels will live in spirit and in your heart forever. As you heal, they will help to guide you to a new kitty who needs to know the same kind of love they knew with you.

Please come back and tell us more about Selena and Brownie. It helps so much to tell their stories. The ttears flow, but the smiles shine through as we remember all the things that made them so special to us.

You and your angel kitties are in my thoughts and prayers.
barbara woolard Comment by barbara woolard on June 21, 2009 at 5:50pm
hi everyone i lost selena about a year ago and we lost brownie a couple of months ago i lost them a year apart and i hurt everyday selena was 13 years old and brownie was about 15 years old i love you my angels
Maria D. Villegas Comment by Maria D. Villegas on June 19, 2009 at 11:49pm
I'll definitely sign the petition and get all my friends to sign it too. There is no forgiveness for that so called "human" except by the Almighty. May he be merciful with her when her times comes to meet him. I can only imagine the pain that poor baby went through in that oven. They should do the same to her!
Charlotte Jenkins Comment by Charlotte Jenkins on June 19, 2009 at 9:08pm
I lost my beloved tabby cat (Bobby) yesterday. He was 16 years old. I adopted him at 13 weeks old from my local animal shelter. He spit at me thru the protective glass. I picked him because I figured nobody else would take him. He had kidney failure. I had him euthanized.
If you are going to adopt a pet, please pick one from your local animal shelter. They are a special breed. Thanks for the unconditional love Bobby. I love you and miss you.
Joe Comment by Joe on June 19, 2009 at 8:24am
Thanks for info on the petition. I am angry and hope they throw the book at this twisted teen psycho.
Kelly Butler Comment by Kelly Butler on June 19, 2009 at 5:01am
I am 100% behind you on that one Angie, they are a gift from god and we should treasure themxxxxx

Have a great day everyone.

It was such a heart feel true story that I couldn't stop half way through. All my love to you and your family and new addition Angiexxxxx
 

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