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Pet Memorial Group

For anyone who has lost a beloved pet. In memory of Blackie, the best furry friend in the world. If you are hurting, you aren't alone.

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Welcome to the Pet Memorial Group

For everyone who is grieving the loss of a beloved furry family member, please know that we are here for you. It helps to express yourself in whichever way works best for you, in order to move out of the intensity of the pain. It takes a lot of time, believe me, I know firsthand. It's been only two months since I lost the furry love of my life, Blackie. I think of him every day.

Please have comfort in knowing that your pet is with you in your heart and memories forever. Somehow this thought gives me peace deep down, and I hope it does for you too. If you would like to light a virtual candle in your pet's name, follow this link. It's very comforting. Just cut and paste into your browser address bar if the link isn't clickable:
http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/candles.cfm?l=eng


Please post memorials for your pets at the bottom of the page, we want to see them! This is your group and we want to hear from you :) Read below for important grief hotline information. Carolyn


Pet Loss Hotlines (Grief Counseling)
Drs. Foster & Smith Educational Staff


For many people, losing a pet may be one of the saddest experiences they will ever have. We know and understand how the death of a beloved friend and companion can be heartbreaking. Talking to someone who understands your grief is a way to help the healing process begin. If you do not know of anyone to talk to, you may wish to call one of the pet loss hotlines listed below. Caring people there can listen and help. They're only a phone call away.
Phone Numbers
530-752-3602 or
800-565-1526 Staffed by University of California-Davis veterinary students.
Website: www.vetmed.ucdavis.edu/petloss/index.htm
630-325-1600 Staffed by Chicago VMA veterinarians and staffs.
970-491-4143 Staffed by Colorado State University - Argus Institute counselors.
Website: www.argusinstitute.colostate.edu/grief.htm
607-253-3932 Staffed by Cornell University veterinary students.
Website: web.vet.cornell.edu/public/petloss/
352-392-4700;
then dial 1 and 4080 Staffed by Florida veterinary students.
Website: neuro.vetmed.ufl.edu/alt_med/petgrief/petloss.htm
217-244-2273 (CARE) or
877-394-2273 (CARE) Staffed by University of Illinois College of Veterinary Medicine students.
Website: www.cvm.uiuc.edu/CARE/

517-432-2696 Staffed by Michigan State University veterinary students.
Website: cvm.msu.edu/petloss/index.htm
614-292-1823 Staffed by Ohio State University College of Veterinary Medicine students.
E-Mail: petloss@osu.edu
Purdue University's Center for the Human-Animal Bond
Website: http://www.vet.purdue.edu/chab/bond.htm

508-839-7966 Staffed by Tufts University veterinary students.
Website: www.tufts.edu/vet/petloss/
540-231-8038 Staffed by Virginia-Maryland Regional College of Veterinary Medicine.
Website: www.vetmed.vt.edu/Organization/Clinical/petloss/petloss.html
509-335-5704 Staffed by Washington State University College of Veterinary Medicine students.
Website: www.vetmed.wsu.edu/plhl/index.htm

Here's some positive music to comfort and soothe during the loss of a dear pet. I tried to give a variety of genres for everyone to enjoy (country, popular, traditional, etc). Listen if you like, and only if it helps you.

Carolyn

Just a Dog "From time to time, people tell me, lighten up 'it's just a dog', or ‘that's a lot of money to spend on just a dog’. They don't understand. Some of my proudest moments were with 'just a dog'. For many hours, my only company was 'just a dog'. Some of my saddest moments were with 'just a dog', who gave me comfort. 'Just a dog' brings into my life the very essence of friendship, trust, and joy. 'Just a dog' brings out the compassion and patience that make me a better person. I rise early, take long walks and look longingly to the future. 'Just a dog' brings out what's good in me. I hope someday you will understand that it's not 'just a dog', but the very thing that keeps me from being 'just a human’.” ~Unknown
An Important Note to All: We strive to make this site free of pressure to buy anything, as the subject is memorializing our beloved pets. Commercial advertisement is forbidden, and posters who violate this rule will be removed from the group and banned from posting here. No selling, no exceptions. If you want to network, please do so on your homepage but not here, as this is for grieving pet owners only. Keep sending your photos of your pets, we love to see them. This is where you can come and feel safe to express yourself about your pet, we are here for you. Group administration


Report all animal abuse to all your friends and animal lovers on here that you can. Groups are good for getting the word out. Also, use social networking sites like Twitter, Facbook, etc.

Here are very useful links to help:
http://www.aspca.org/fight-animal-cruelty/report-animal-cruelty.html

http://www.pet-abuse.com/pages/animal_cruelty/reporting_abuse.php

http://www.peta.org/

http://www.sniksnak.com/ac/report.html

Discussion Forum

Kim Bair

Too many losses in such a short period of time..... how do I cope? 11 Replies

Started by Kim Bair. Last reply by shayterry Dec 19.

DiAnn Miller

Happy Holidays???? 3 Replies

Started by DiAnn Miller. Last reply by shayterry Dec 19.

DaynalovesTigger

Still Grieving 9 Replies

Started by DaynalovesTigger. Last reply by shayterry Dec 16.

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Kelly Butler Comment by Kelly Butler on November 25, 2009 at 11:31am
And mine for you and your family hunxxxxxxx

It is so sad that he has to take people/animals that we care about and leaves a lot of evil people here in this world.

Why don't you light a lovely candle for your babyxxxx
Cheryl Martin Comment by Cheryl Martin on November 25, 2009 at 11:15am
I am so sorry to hear that Kelly. My heart aches for you.

Hugs,

Cheryl and Angel Jasmine
Kelly Butler Comment by Kelly Butler on November 25, 2009 at 11:00am
My heart goes out to you at this sad time. I lost one of my foster babies and all she and her brother wanted was to be hugged and loved. Unfortunately I wasn't there at the time she died and it broke my heart, as I took more than a shine to these two. I am just glad that I spent all my time loving her and cuddling her. She died Friday just gone. She was only 3 months old and we didn't even know she wasnt well. RIP Baby girlxxx
Cheryl Martin Comment by Cheryl Martin on November 24, 2009 at 11:25pm
Jasmine,

I can't believe this will be our first Thanksgiving without you here in our lives.
Our first one in thirteen years. Tears will be shed as I quietly remember how you sat there ever so patiently while Daddy carved the turkey the night before, no matter how long it took.
Your eyes fixed on his every move. Your eyes never left him. Waiting for any morsel, any crumb to accidently fall for you to clean up.
I had to release you from your pain 09-04-09 created by the drug I gave you.
For this I am truly sorry.
Your eyes told me you could take no more.
You were telling me 'it was time'.
I will forever miss you Jasmine.
I will never forget the memories you left me.
The void will always be there.
Rest in peace my sweet baby girl.
Free from pain.
Free to eat again.
Free to wonder thru the flower beds again.
Sleep well my baby girl at The Rainbow Bridge.

Love, Mom
Country Spiced Comment by Country Spiced on November 18, 2009 at 2:59pm

I just want to say I am sorry for all of your losses and I understand the pain of loving so deeply and losing that precious pet or loved one. I pray for God to be of comfort and help you to find peace in your hearts.
Country Spiced Comment by Country Spiced on November 18, 2009 at 2:49pm

My Doberman,Fancy was my Birthday present when she was just a itty bitty and Penny Lou who well was just my Penny Lou.
Fancy had just had puppies and while she was pulled down a bit she wasn't unhealthy and penny lou was healthy as a horse.
We had let Penny run free awhile and the next day she was dead. Well I thought she had gotten into something but the next day my doberman who hadn't been lose to run around died also. It wasn't the food because the pups ate the same. I cant prove it but I think they were poisened. I cant hardy stand my precious babies to have died especially this way.. I also have 3 babies in heaven (tubel).
Bobbie Spiegel Comment by Bobbie Spiegel on November 18, 2009 at 2:16pm
A few months ago my beloved Shitzu, Nikko choked and died while
eating a treat. He was a part of me and I am so lost without him.
I bred him and had him since birth and can't begin to explain the pain that I am going through. I have created a petition so that this does
not happen to another animal. Please click and sign
www.thepetitionsite.com/1/these-treats-killed-my-dog

Thank you so much.

Bobbie S
Cheryl Martin Comment by Cheryl Martin on November 16, 2009 at 9:40am
Sara, I cannot give you advice on what to do at work. Even though I no longer work, I am retired, I still cannot say Jasmime's name without shedding tears, without having a pain in my heart. I lost her 09-04-09 to a drug I gave to her ProIn. Here you can express your sorrow and noone will say "it's just a dog". People who say this have never walked in our shoes and never shared the love and campionship that a furbaby provides and they are missing out on so much in life. She was your child, your best friend.
Be strong Sara. If you are concerned about 'it's just a dog' just tell them you lost someone dear and precious to you.
My thoughts and prayers will be with you today. Come back often to share your grief. We are here to listen.

Cheryl and Angel Jasmine
Kelly Butler Comment by Kelly Butler on November 16, 2009 at 8:45am
Hey Sara,

You have come to the right site hunxxx

Everytime you feel sad just remember that she knew you loved her very much and that you gave her the best life possible. So think of it this way she is watching over you now and still sending her love to you. we are a great website and you can always chat to anyone on here, as we all feel the same way that you do.xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Sara Poggio Bello Comment by Sara Poggio Bello on November 15, 2009 at 3:31pm
thanks for this site. I do not know what to do, my dear Camila, was not a dog, she was my best friend, my only one. She died last Thursdays at 9;10pm. I cannot stop to cry since. I have to go to work tomorrow and give a presentation. I am afraid to broke in tears, with people that would not understand. You know the kind of people that think that you are not in control of your feeling and not serious professionals. It happens to me when my mother died, I was pretty distressed and I felt that people could not understand it. I promise I would not talk to anyone about Camila's death, at work, because I do not want to listen, well is only a dog. Some suggestion for your first day at work after the loss of your dear pet.
thanks a lot
Sara
 

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