We received ELLIE - a feral (wild) Tortoiseshell kitten from my adult son who rescue her. We have had her 3 years, she trusts us completely, she comes inside the house to hang out with the family, but does not like to be held at all.
She will come up and visit let you pet her, but holding her makes her feel skirmish.
Our Ellie has come a long way, she is still very independent, but the other half (her domestic side) appreciates the security family offers.
She can climb trees as fast as a squirrel. She is very street smart. She is very curious. She is very pretty. We know that with age she may become more comfortable with domestic life. She no longer gets in to the trash to search for food, because she has learned the bowl of food is there for her and she doesn't have to search for food, that took many months for her to understand.
We don't HAVE to hold her to appreciate what a special kitty she is.
Give love and understanding, domestic life takes time to get use to.
Our method of helping her adjust: Offer the warmth, security, understanding and love and slowly they become more comfortable with their new settings
Our youngest cat, a 9mos old bengal is the type of cat who wants to be held, he is just a big baby that wants everyones full attention...
what is my point???
Just like people, each cat has their own personality, enjoy them for who they are.
Do you have a story about a feral adapting to domestic life?
HERE'S AN PHOTO OF ELLIE:

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